
One bad experience at a parent/teacher conference can scar you for life. For me it happened when Hannah was in the fourth grade. I innocently went for my scheduled conference and her teacher very politely asked "does you daughter lie". I was, naturally, quite taken aback. It was during a phase when I think Hannah did not feel she was getting quite enough attention. She had bandaged her hand quite extensively and when asked about it informed her teacher that she had burnt her hand while we were visiting her grandparents. I suppose the theory was that the number of candles on her grandfather’s birthday cake created quite an inferno, and thus, the burnt hand. At any rate, when she came to school the following day with no bandage she informed her teacher that she had gone to the doctor and had her skin "grafted back together". Quite a creative thinker she is. At any rate, this is what prompted the inquiry about her perhaps being less than truthful.
Today I had what will be Hannah’s last parent/teacher conference, the don't them at the Junior High. I was not asked about her truthfulness, nor was I told any surprising stories about her. It was pretty much a standard conference – she could do a little better in math, but we can work on that – and we selected her courses for next year. Next year she starts 7th grade – Junior High. It seems like just yesterday that she was starting kindergarten.